We had our first call with Sweetie this evening! Actually, just as I was calling them, she called us! I answered the phone and there she was! I was so excited! We talked for about 30 minutes, during the time she was always very polite, saying Ma'am when she couldn't hear me talk. During this conversation we learned the following about her: She loves dogs and wants a big dog someday like a Lab or German Shepard
Her Favorite Artist is Adele
She can sing well
She likes musical instruments ( but not any you blow) she mentioned the drums,guitar
She likes to go horseback riding
Her favorite color is Lime Green
Her favorite subject in School is Math
Her Favorite Foods are French Fries and Fruit
She Dislikes Meatloaf, Cabbage and Brussel Sprouts
She likes to run
She likes to go swimming
She has a real sweet personality on the phone and is very confident.
I said to her that I heard she was a very special young lady and she answered with "Yes I am!" To which I responded that we were a special family! I love the confidence...it is very like my own!
We are very excited to talk more with her and her foster mom. Her foster mom has been fabulous! I really like her and I look forward to developing a friendship with her.
On another note we added a loft bed to Sweetie's room. It looks so cool in there!!! I love to be in there. It is so peaceful and just feels good to be in there! I hope she likes it as much as I do!
We sent her a care package with photos of us, the dogs, the house. As well as a journal with pen, a Scentsy stuffed animal that smells like lavender, a butterfly like the ones hanging in her room and a card.
It is so appropriate for us to have our first call on Easter. It is a new beginning for her and us. Out of something truly devastating comes beauty and hope.
01/06/2011- Submitted Application to CHS 02/19/2011- First Meeting with Social Worker- filled out initial paperwork 03/26/2011- Finger Printing 04/01/2011- 05/014/2011- MAPP Training 04/09/2011- Assigned 2nd Social Worker 04/23/2011- Background Checks Cleared 04/26/2011- Home Visit 05/02/2011- Fire Inspection 05/03/2011- Had to get Manual Finger Prints because electronic ones I was advised to get done are only good for 30 days 05/08/2011- Our Profiles Turned in to Social Worker 05/23/2011- References Done 06/06/2011- Per Social Worker CHS is processing all our paperwork (can take up to 50 days for approval) 06/07/2011- Marriage Certificate and Divorce Decrees mailed to Greensboro 06/08/2011- Discipline Agreement Signed and Mailed in 06/16/2011- Photo Profiles mailed to Greensboro 06/24.2011- Mailed in Diplomas to Greensboro 07/08/2011- Home Visit from social worker- requesting I see therapist 07/19/2011- Start therapy 08/02/2011- Assigned 3rd Social Worker 08/09/2011- physicals/tb test 08/13/2011- met new Social Worker - another Home Visit for Foster Home Application 08/29/2011- psychological testing, couples therapy and released from therapy (therapist saying she can not find anything wrong) 09/16/2011- psychological reports mailed in. 10/05/2011- 12 Skills worksheet filled out and turned in 10/06/2011- Vet Records submitted 10/8/2011- received a call telling us they have children that they think we will be perfect parents for ( but 3 boys). 10/25/2011- another Home Visit. Signed our foster home application. Told our paperwork should be sent up to the committee in about a week. Gave her copies of reference letters that had previously been sent to old social worker 11/05/2011 Received an email that we need another Home Visit to finalize paperwork. 11/10/2011 Home Study sent from our social worker to her supervisor for approval (it then comes to us for approval then the review committee) 11/20/2011 Contact with family about adopting Baby L :) . Email to Social Worker about expediting our foster license 11/22/2011 Second Fire Inspection (first one expired) 11/23/2011 told needed to replace marriage license and divorce decrees ( ordered from NY State and awaiting delivery) Mike sent me his original and I ordered a copy for him, and we had one last original of marriage certificate. 12/06/2011- Should receive final divorce decree today. 12/23/2012- CHS Approved Home Studdy (PPA) 02/24/2012- Inquiry sent to Children Awaiting Parents about Sweetie & her Sister in Florida 02/28/2012- Foster License Arrived 03/06/2012- Paperwork filled out Florida paperwork to proceed with matching 03/19/13- Match Staffing Scheduled and we were approved to be a match for Sweetie 04/08/2012- First Phone Call 05/11/2012- 05/13/2012- First Meeting In Florida 06/08/2012- 06/17/2012 Trip to Disney and First visit to NC for Sweetie 07/14/2012- Sweetie Moved In! 07/26/2012- Sweetie mailed in her consent to be adopted 09/14-09/26/2012- Sweetie hospitalized 10/06/2012- ADOPTION FINALIZED!! Sweetie is legally our daughter 12/24/2012- Sweetie’s Birth Certificate with us listed as parents arrived 02/22/2013- Sweetie admitted to PRTF 08/22/2013-Sweetie discharged from PRTF 10/30/2013- Sweetie Hospitalized 2nd time 11/11/2013- Sweetie admitted to different PRTF 05/30/2014- Sweetie discharged from 2nd PRTF & started Day Treatment 07/3/14 -07/18/14-Sweetie Hospitalized for 3rd time 07/18/14-08/10/2014 - Sweetie in temporary group home 08/10/2014-Sweetie admitted to 3rd PRTF 10/05/2014- Child #2 -Matched with birth mom- she is 4 months pregnant. 10/05/2014 fundraising started, lawyer and home study agencies secured. 10/22/2014- first fundraising goal of $2000 raised by doing envelope fundraiser and selling my watercolor paintings 10/22/2014- first meeting with adoption lawyer- retainer paid 10/24/14- Background checks completed 10/25/2014- physicals complete 11/07/2014- home study paperwork mailed to Triangle Adoption Services. (Home study paid 11/14/14 Homestudy paperwork sent in to agency 11/19/14 First call with Birth Mom :) 11/25/15- Social Worker interviewed Sweetie 12/03/14- First email communication with Birth Mom 12/06/14- Met Birth Mom and her family 12/11/2014- Home Study Visit 12/17/14- 2nd Home Study Visit & visit with baby's mom 12/31/14- Ultrasound to find out it is a BOY! Baby Spartacus! 01/21/15- Birth mom signs initial legal paperwork, legal father signs consent form for adoption 01/22/15- Home Study Approved 01/26/15- Cherokee Indian Tribe consented to adoption 03/09/15- Baby Spartacus is born 03/10/15- Bio mom relinquished rights 03/16/15- Bio father served to request relinquishment. 04/21/15- Bio father contest adoption 6/12/15- Spartacus meets his birth brother on mom's side. :) 06/17/15- Court hearing for necessity of birth father's consent. 07/03/15- Motion Granted that father's consent not required. 07/21/15- Home Study Agency sent Court Report in so adoption can be finalized. 08/04/15- Spartacus' adoption finalized!!!!! 08/21/15- Sweetie transitioned to IAFT 06/08/16- Sweetie transitioned to TFC- she changes her plan to reunification with birth family when 18 (1.5 years from now)09/30/16- Sweetie transferred to another placement due to behavioral issues. It is decided, there will be no reunification with our family. Her plan is to stay in TFC as long as possible and then transition into living. 04/19/2017- Sweetie transferred to another placement due to behavioral issues. Wrap Around Services Started 06/21/2017- Sweetie started with Youth Villages Life Set Program 08/14/2017- Youth Villages Life Set Program terminated due to Sweetie refusing to work the program 09/20/2017- Wrap Around Services Terminated due to Sweetie refusing to work the program. 03/17/2018 Sweetie turns 18.
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